Funny how the world has changed... used to be a man would break his back to get the girl. All too often wooing has disappeared and an Instant relationship is created. No calls, flowers, effort. Seems the women now have to chase yet then are seen as "thirsty."
No wonder long term relationships flounder! If they didn't work to get you why would they work to keep you?!
Yes, I know (and fully believe in) instant connection and lifelong magnetism can happen. But why the loss of romance?
I'm in love with handwritten letters, slow dances anywhere, calls to say hi and all the trappings that come with loving someone.
I try to be this::::it seems a rarity. Men are working hard to be "men" not gentlemen and women are frantic because they don't know where they stand.
The era of the hookup is ruining some beautiful things. Now, sometimes you have to just wait and see. This is not the scenario I speak of.
So, if you love them say it. If you think they're beautiful tell them. If you miss them send them a letter, a text, a song, a call! Be proud of what you're seeking. Grab onto it with both hands!
We all love differently, but if you use your personal ways to love with intention no more questioning will happen! You will not wonder their intentions and they won't wonder if they matter.
Namaste
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